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		<title>Comment on The Extraordinary V Conference by anicca</title>
		<link>http://www.we-are-aware.sg/2009/07/22/extraordinary-v/comment-page-1/#comment-207</link>
		<dc:creator>anicca</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 02:38:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Cant wait to see this!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Why AWARE cannot &#8220;be Nice&#8221; by Constance Singam</title>
		<link>http://www.we-are-aware.sg/2009/07/16/why-aware-cannot-be-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-202</link>
		<dc:creator>Constance Singam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2009 07:26:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>plopp. Well said.

Thank you  and I am happy that my comments have helped you. I am afraid our culture has not matured enough nor the people in authority  feel secure enough in their sense of identity to enable them to respect opposing views.

We have been socialised in cultures and religions that are patriarchal, authoritarian and hierarchical.  It will take us a long time to shed these values and attitudes.

AWARE&#039;s objective is to raise awareness about these inherently negative attitudes and values of the patriarchal system which people who hold democratic values, such as feminists, believe are damaging to human relationships and well-being.

Hope for change rests with young people such as yourself. best of luck. 

Constance Singam</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>plopp. Well said.</p>
<p>Thank you  and I am happy that my comments have helped you. I am afraid our culture has not matured enough nor the people in authority  feel secure enough in their sense of identity to enable them to respect opposing views.</p>
<p>We have been socialised in cultures and religions that are patriarchal, authoritarian and hierarchical.  It will take us a long time to shed these values and attitudes.</p>
<p>AWARE&#8217;s objective is to raise awareness about these inherently negative attitudes and values of the patriarchal system which people who hold democratic values, such as feminists, believe are damaging to human relationships and well-being.</p>
<p>Hope for change rests with young people such as yourself. best of luck. </p>
<p>Constance Singam</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why AWARE cannot &#8220;be Nice&#8221; by DavidLeong</title>
		<link>http://www.we-are-aware.sg/2009/07/16/why-aware-cannot-be-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-199</link>
		<dc:creator>DavidLeong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Jul 2009 07:27:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>AWARE&#039;s vision is fighting/working for gender equality for all &amp; thus it is already &#039;inclusiveness&#039;! So, how can it possibly be nice or not nice as dualistic concept which could be a trap by itself? It can only be wiser for ALL as it moves on responsibly... This is an ideal concept though for all humankind on earth.

Incidently, I like to requote here with MM Lee Kuan Yew in today The Sunday Times when he was touching about Racial Harmony Issue:- &quot; This is an ideal which may never completed reach, but because we have this ideal, we will continue to make progress.&quot; 

AWARE also spells out loud &amp; clear that its mission is to identify areas for improvement in gender equality, encourage positive change, and support women in realising their highest potential.

Smile &amp; cheer!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>AWARE&#8217;s vision is fighting/working for gender equality for all &amp; thus it is already &#8216;inclusiveness&#8217;! So, how can it possibly be nice or not nice as dualistic concept which could be a trap by itself? It can only be wiser for ALL as it moves on responsibly&#8230; This is an ideal concept though for all humankind on earth.</p>
<p>Incidently, I like to requote here with MM Lee Kuan Yew in today The Sunday Times when he was touching about Racial Harmony Issue:- &#8221; This is an ideal which may never completed reach, but because we have this ideal, we will continue to make progress.&#8221; </p>
<p>AWARE also spells out loud &amp; clear that its mission is to identify areas for improvement in gender equality, encourage positive change, and support women in realising their highest potential.</p>
<p>Smile &amp; cheer!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why AWARE cannot &#8220;be Nice&#8221; by plopp</title>
		<link>http://www.we-are-aware.sg/2009/07/16/why-aware-cannot-be-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-196</link>
		<dc:creator>plopp</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 09:02:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am in a girls&#039; school and it is disgusting how the school administration says on one hand that students should learn to be dynamic thinkers and pioneers then turn around and quash our every move as &#039;disrespectful&#039;, &#039;unorthodox&#039;, or (if they&#039;re in an uncreative mood) plain old &#039;rude&#039; - even when the action in question is something as simple as a typewritten letter voicing opinions, placed on an office desk. Believing in equal rights is perceived as somehow militant, while being considered a Nice Person is something like a social pinnacle.

This writing has inspired me; thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am in a girls&#8217; school and it is disgusting how the school administration says on one hand that students should learn to be dynamic thinkers and pioneers then turn around and quash our every move as &#8216;disrespectful&#8217;, &#8216;unorthodox&#8217;, or (if they&#8217;re in an uncreative mood) plain old &#8216;rude&#8217; &#8211; even when the action in question is something as simple as a typewritten letter voicing opinions, placed on an office desk. Believing in equal rights is perceived as somehow militant, while being considered a Nice Person is something like a social pinnacle.</p>
<p>This writing has inspired me; thank you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why AWARE cannot &#8220;be Nice&#8221; by The Singapore Daily &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Daily SG: 17 Jul 2009</title>
		<link>http://www.we-are-aware.sg/2009/07/16/why-aware-cannot-be-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-195</link>
		<dc:creator>The Singapore Daily &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Daily SG: 17 Jul 2009</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 03:24:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Rawkin&#8217; by Gweek</title>
		<link>http://www.we-are-aware.sg/2009/07/11/the-rawkin-thios/comment-page-1/#comment-193</link>
		<dc:creator>Gweek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2009 13:53:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awww what happened? I came back to revisit the laughs, but it&#039;s gone. :(</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awww what happened? I came back to revisit the laughs, but it&#8217;s gone. <img src='http://www.we-are-aware.sg/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Why AWARE cannot &#8220;be Nice&#8221; by Sharon Saw</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sharon Saw</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2009 07:46:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for a lovely article. Change, whether for the better or for the worse, always makes people feel uncomfortable, so it is quite natural to receive criticism for the good work AWARE is doing. Some men feel uncomfortable when women&#039;s rights are promoted because they feel threatened. 

Ironically, some women also feel uncomfortable when their rights are promoted because they don&#039;t like to focus on their issues and they don&#039;t like to hear men complaining about women&#039;s rights.

It&#039;s a lot to do with education - so that men don&#039;t have to feel threatened and that women realise that they are entitled to rights that they may not even know about.

It&#039;s about being first, AWARE, and second, doing something about it, which AWARE is valiantly doing for the sake of women who have suffered before and women who will suffer less in the future!

Keep up the good work!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for a lovely article. Change, whether for the better or for the worse, always makes people feel uncomfortable, so it is quite natural to receive criticism for the good work AWARE is doing. Some men feel uncomfortable when women&#8217;s rights are promoted because they feel threatened. </p>
<p>Ironically, some women also feel uncomfortable when their rights are promoted because they don&#8217;t like to focus on their issues and they don&#8217;t like to hear men complaining about women&#8217;s rights.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a lot to do with education &#8211; so that men don&#8217;t have to feel threatened and that women realise that they are entitled to rights that they may not even know about.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s about being first, AWARE, and second, doing something about it, which AWARE is valiantly doing for the sake of women who have suffered before and women who will suffer less in the future!</p>
<p>Keep up the good work!</p>
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		<title>Comment on AWARE Presscon: The $90k Question by Dana Lam</title>
		<link>http://www.we-are-aware.sg/2009/07/06/90k-question/comment-page-1/#comment-190</link>
		<dc:creator>Dana Lam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 11:56:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello everyone, 

Thank you for all your reasoned comments on the $90k question. 

Since the media conference of July 6, Boardroom has confirmed a donation of $3,000 back to AWARE. This brings the sum total &quot;recovered&quot; in the form of donations from service providers to the EGM to $11,000. Together with the $98, 765.70 worth of membership fees, we have more than covered expenses incurred by the previous Exco for the EGM.

While we will have to speed up on fund-raising activities asap, having lost two over months to the EGM and ensuing weeks, you are all right to think that any legal recourse is going to be protracted and costly. It is not a clear cut case.  And the publicity could hardly be beneficial to AWARE. Better to get on with the job - which is to identify and eliminate the areas of gender discrimination still in our society and to empower women to realise their full potential. See you all some time!

This year, AWARE will focus on strengthening our capacity in research and advocacy and our outreach to women across Singapore. We look forward to touching base with you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello everyone, </p>
<p>Thank you for all your reasoned comments on the $90k question. </p>
<p>Since the media conference of July 6, Boardroom has confirmed a donation of $3,000 back to AWARE. This brings the sum total &#8220;recovered&#8221; in the form of donations from service providers to the EGM to $11,000. Together with the $98, 765.70 worth of membership fees, we have more than covered expenses incurred by the previous Exco for the EGM.</p>
<p>While we will have to speed up on fund-raising activities asap, having lost two over months to the EGM and ensuing weeks, you are all right to think that any legal recourse is going to be protracted and costly. It is not a clear cut case.  And the publicity could hardly be beneficial to AWARE. Better to get on with the job &#8211; which is to identify and eliminate the areas of gender discrimination still in our society and to empower women to realise their full potential. See you all some time!</p>
<p>This year, AWARE will focus on strengthening our capacity in research and advocacy and our outreach to women across Singapore. We look forward to touching base with you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on AWARE Presscon: The $90k Question by Donaldson Tan</title>
		<link>http://www.we-are-aware.sg/2009/07/06/90k-question/comment-page-1/#comment-187</link>
		<dc:creator>Donaldson Tan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 06:53:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What about Singapore Mediation Centre as an alternative site for dispute resolution?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What about Singapore Mediation Centre as an alternative site for dispute resolution?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Rawkin&#8217; by is this Aware's official website ?</title>
		<link>http://www.we-are-aware.sg/2009/07/11/the-rawkin-thios/comment-page-1/#comment-185</link>
		<dc:creator>is this Aware's official website ?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 12:22:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Was quite surprised to see that AWARE is stooping so low with this article. I hope I&#039;ve assumed wrongly that this is AWARE&#039;s official website. It&#039;s one thing to try to educate the public about tolerance and inclusiveness. But an article like this can make AWARE lose credibility with the common folk....

&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;admin&lt;/strong&gt;: please note that this is not AWARE&#039;s official website. The views on We-Are-Aware do not represent the official view of AWARE except where expressly stated. &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.we-are-aware.sg/about/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;More&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Was quite surprised to see that AWARE is stooping so low with this article. I hope I&#8217;ve assumed wrongly that this is AWARE&#8217;s official website. It&#8217;s one thing to try to educate the public about tolerance and inclusiveness. But an article like this can make AWARE lose credibility with the common folk&#8230;.</p>
<p><em><strong>admin</strong>: please note that this is not AWARE&#8217;s official website. The views on We-Are-Aware do not represent the official view of AWARE except where expressly stated. <a href="http://www.we-are-aware.sg/about/" rel="nofollow">More</a></em></p>
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		<title>Comment on Rawkin&#8217; by tabithakensington</title>
		<link>http://www.we-are-aware.sg/2009/07/11/the-rawkin-thios/comment-page-1/#comment-184</link>
		<dc:creator>tabithakensington</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 09:26:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>IMHO punditry and parody (while very funny and entertaining) like this is best left to the pundits and journos.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>IMHO punditry and parody (while very funny and entertaining) like this is best left to the pundits and journos.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Rawkin&#8217; by Seelan Palay</title>
		<link>http://www.we-are-aware.sg/2009/07/11/the-rawkin-thios/comment-page-1/#comment-183</link>
		<dc:creator>Seelan Palay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 05:18:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oscar Wilde is beautiful! Can&#039;t say as much for the previous 2 pics in the article though..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oscar Wilde is beautiful! Can&#8217;t say as much for the previous 2 pics in the article though..</p>
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		<title>Comment on AWARE Presscon: The $90k Question by Callan Tham</title>
		<link>http://www.we-are-aware.sg/2009/07/06/90k-question/comment-page-1/#comment-182</link>
		<dc:creator>Callan Tham</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 13:57:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think Sniper hit the nail on the head. A protracted legal battle would not only be financially draining, it would also further drag the name of AWARE through the mud. It is time to learn from the events and move on, being stronger for it. Even though we are speculating, this scenario is plausible and, in my opinion, prudent.

The donations by Rajah and Tann, D&amp;T and Boardroom are also a pleasant surprise.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think Sniper hit the nail on the head. A protracted legal battle would not only be financially draining, it would also further drag the name of AWARE through the mud. It is time to learn from the events and move on, being stronger for it. Even though we are speculating, this scenario is plausible and, in my opinion, prudent.</p>
<p>The donations by Rajah and Tann, D&amp;T and Boardroom are also a pleasant surprise.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Rawkin&#8217; by Gweek</title>
		<link>http://www.we-are-aware.sg/2009/07/11/the-rawkin-thios/comment-page-1/#comment-181</link>
		<dc:creator>Gweek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 11:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Best angle into Uniquely Singapore yet, errr &quot;admin&quot;! I&#039;d definitely pay to get on a duck tour of where this infamous basement may be! But you forget to mention how the Thios are a force of national reconciliation on so many levels -- crossing religious, racial, and gender lines! And they make us all forget the little things we spend our days on and think about what kind of Singapore we want and, at length, celebrate the gahmen&#039;s wisdom. Now, that&#039;s a rarity: next National Day, I suggest we save money on music videos and just recycle clips featurng the Thios.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Best angle into Uniquely Singapore yet, errr &#8220;admin&#8221;! I&#8217;d definitely pay to get on a duck tour of where this infamous basement may be! But you forget to mention how the Thios are a force of national reconciliation on so many levels &#8212; crossing religious, racial, and gender lines! And they make us all forget the little things we spend our days on and think about what kind of Singapore we want and, at length, celebrate the gahmen&#8217;s wisdom. Now, that&#8217;s a rarity: next National Day, I suggest we save money on music videos and just recycle clips featurng the Thios.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Rawkin&#8217; by named</title>
		<link>http://www.we-are-aware.sg/2009/07/11/the-rawkin-thios/comment-page-1/#comment-180</link>
		<dc:creator>named</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 10:08:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>here here!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>here here!</p>
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